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clockOn my green business blog, I recently posted about time. It’s a touchy subject for many people who have developed habits that may be comfortable but may not be producing the results they desire. That includes me!

What makes up a day? 24 hours, 60 minute segments to use or throw away, or chunks of 20 minutes that can produce massive progress! This is one of my new strategies. I’m chunking tasks into 20 minute segments. If I need to make phone calls, I have the list of who to call, the reason for the call, the desired result from the call, and the specific action I’m seeking from the person I call prepared, so in case I get a voice mail recording, I’m still accomplishing my mission. If I get a real person, all is good. I’m more focused, I’m to the point and I’m moving forward with my goals.

This isn’t easy. It takes some planning. It is also making a big change in my own patterns. It is stepping out of my comfort zone, where traditionally I’ve worried about making other people comfortable, or not seeming pushy or aggressive, but hey, if you don’t ask for what you really want, how will you get it?!? In The 4-Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss, he shares how he makes time work for him. Part of my strategy is acknowledging that if I focus on what I want, I actually ask for what I want and get an answer. Then I’ll know and can move on. It’s OK when people say no. Then I can shift gears, reformat my strategy, find another way to get where I’m headed and move forward.

This year is all about stepping out of my comfort zone. This is how I’m approaching life these days. If I’m not uncomfortable, I haven’t stretched myself far enough. It’s scary most days. It’s rewarding every day. In my business, I believe in the Rework principles – there’s a better, faster, easier way. I’m focusing on what I really want, and how I want my life to be an adventure. Things could be simpler, but what fun would that be?!? I’m all about the Art of Non-Conformity and finding your voice in a noisy world! If you have some secrets about using time to create positive change, please share!

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Thank you, Paula Deen! Your recent acknowledgement that you are afflicted with not only Type-2 Diabetes but also the arrogance to use it to profit from your vast brand made me get real with myself. I HAD (note PAST TENSE) admired Paula’s ability to share delightfully unhealthy food in a fun and joyful manner. It gave me permission to enjoy said food while knowing that it was doing me no favors. Paula’s determination to freely share the wealth of artery clogging, heart attack inducing recipes from her television shows, her restaurants, her multitude of cookbooks and personal appearances gave the illusion that she was sharing her passion for taste and tradition.

How wrong we all were! Paula has not only lost my respect as a chef, a mother and a business person, but as a woman. She has purposefully and profitably used the past three years to manage her brand to willfully deceive her audience. While she was adjusting her diet, learning to live with her condition, she continued to promote a lifestyle and eating habits that she knew were harming the people who loved her. There were clues to this shift, as Paula appeared recently on Dr. Oz’s show, taking her traditional recipes and making them more healthy as a show segment. With her announcement this week promoting a diabetes drug, and even a questionable diabetes drug, INSTEAD of a clear and strong apology and reformatting of her recipes for better health, she has lost all credibility in my mind.

Paula’s lack of integrity was long noted by Anthony Bourdain of No Reservations. Earlier this week the ongoing feud between the two was ignited when after Paula’s announcement, Bourdain tweeted what’s pictured below.

While Anthony Bourdain and his No Reservations travel show have not been particular about showing his preference for meat and especially his passionate love of pork, he is the first to admit his high cholesterol levels are an ongoing concern and challenge for him.

So, as of today, I have unfollowed, unliked, and totally disconnected with Paula Deen, her brand, her sponsors and any associated connections. I will not be linking to her recipes, visiting her websites or watching her on TV, EVER!!! I am waging my own battle with health and weight loss and making better choices without the inclusion of drugs into the mix. Using drugs to overcome health conditions that are brought on by poor choices only delay the inevitable. If Paula has done me one favor, it is that today, I am free from continuing on a self destructive path. I’m choosing to live a long and healthy life, without Paula Deen and without diabetes as long as I can.

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If you have watched the video of Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. give the I Have a Dream speech, you know the passion that was behind that message. Rev. King was a true leader, courageous, compassionate, strong-willed and a flawed human, as we all are. It was his humanity that drew people to him. He was magnetic in his energy, inviting people to join the cause of freedom for all people.

Here we are, decades later, with a rising tide of discontent across America. The Occupy movement can be found in every state and in the smallest communities as well as the most populated. People are becoming informed and voicing their realities about the issues affecting their lives. There is no real leader of #Occupy, yet the movement and actions continue to grow.

Today, many people have connected with and learned more about #OccupytheDream. On Tuesday, January 17th, many people who have connected with the ideas of #Occupy will arrive in Washington, DC for #OccupyCongress. It has been a hard road to get there. There are stories of people riding public buses from the west coast who were let off because the bus driver was not an #Occupy supporter. Before the day is over, there will be more stories.

#OccupyCongress is only one day. There will be a volume of people who want to be heard. When Rev. King began talking about changing the rules, having a say and gathering people who believed as he did to take action, there was a similar volume of people who wanted to be heard. It is the nature of life, people want to be acknowledged, know they are valued and create the change they desire.

Whatever your feelings about Rev. King and the way he moved forward towards change, or your feelings about how the #Occupy movement is moving forward today, both have a message that cannot be ignored. The problems of today need solutions, for the present and the generations to come. People will find a way to be heard.

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These are challenging times. Not news to any of us but how we each deal with daily challenges is very different. There are some business people in my circles who are so stressed out that they can barely finish a sentence without some prediction of gloom and doom. In my personal circles of friends and family, some are experiencing health problems and other issues related to unemployment, lack of insurance, housing struggles and some even struggle to put gas in the vehicle.

Yet there is another group of people who I treasure, and these are the people who I’m spending more and more time with these days. The people I’m talking about are the ones who, no matter what the situation is, are the ones who learn, face fear and challenges, maintain a positive outlook and overcome adversity to succeed. They are the beacons to follow, the visionaries who are able to accept that change is a constant. No matter where you are in this moment, you will not be there forever. It is their attitude towards life that moves them forward.

While I know how difficult it is to move forward with no promise of success, the other option is not an option for me. If you have a strategy you use to get you through tough times, please share it here. 2012 is set to be a year of intensity, full of change! I’m all for sharing how to survive and thrive together!

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