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Wrong WayFor years, I have struggled with the idea that business in my local community is almost non existent because I live in a rural, bedroom community where the majority of people work and shop 30-45 minutes away. There are very limited opportunities for local jobs, for residents of any age. The youth move away as quickly as possible to find jobs, attend school and have a social life. In recent years, two of the major employers have shut down, the Dept. of Transportation hub and the telephone company, owned by an out of state corporation.

This is truly sad, as there are well educated, well trained workers, management and leadership quality individuals who live here, and who would gladly stop driving over mountains, wasting hours of time and many gallons of gas each week to apply their talents to local employment. In my community, it is a lack of vision, a lack of investment, and a sheer lack of planning that has led to the economic disaster.

Regionally, it has been pointed out this week, the mentality of looking elsewhere for what is locally available exists in the Roanoke Valley at an entirely different level. The Roanoke Regional Chamber of Commerce did not feel the need to look within its membership which they are supposed to be serving to meet the needs of their own organizational development. With the new publication “Roanoke Business,” the RRCC has chosen to publish outside of the region, and compete directly with its membership, specifically Valley Business Front Magazine and Leisure Publishing, of Roanoker Magazine and Blue Ridge Country Magazine fame. Not only were their members not given an opportunity to bid on the new publication, notice was made public only after the deal was sealed!

When this lack of consideration, communication and common decency is public, it stings, bad! This decision will have a ripple effect on the businesses of our region, having to face decisions about loyalty, perception of their consumers and business partners, and even their churches and families. The writers who could have made great contributions to the publication may choose to stay local with their submissions, increasing the opportunity for outsiders to tell the stories of our region without the years of experience and footwork our local writers have invested. Yes, the Chamber is about business, and yet it seemed to forget it is the ROANOKE REGIONAL Chamber.

When people do things like this, which happens every day, and say “it’s business.” that’s a poor excuse. Business today is about relationships, whether it’s a person walking in the door of your store or greeting you on Facebook each morning. If the relationships are not respected, especially during challenging economic times, the ties that are broken can create wide divides.

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The month of April has been a glorious show of early spring blooms. Trees, shrubs and flowers are blooming several weeks ahead of usual, making many events in the Mid-Atlantic region even more glorious than usual. Spring festivals are being held every weekend and this weekend is full of activities.

In my neck of the woods, the Vinton Dogwood Festival is in full swing, starting tonight. Music, food, craft vendors, rides and community groups with bake sales and raffles and games, parades and even a festival queen. This is an established event, 57 years running. Next will be the Strawberry Festival, Festival in the Park and on we go into the summer season! There are devoted and experienced volunteers and businesses who make all of these events successful.

North Carolina has a similar lineup of outstanding events, beginning this weekend. In Mount Olive, the celebrations will be around the pickle, the 26th Annual NC Pickle Festival! Keeping a sense of humor about it, it’s all about the Pickle! Another event is being held in southern North Carolina, the East Laurinburg Spring Fest. The community has come together to bring people out to the shopping district, get together for a gospel sing, with arts and crafts vendors, food and kids area. In Laurinburg, my friend Lily Pittman owns Lily’s Quilts, Crafts and Things and this is an opportunity to introduce her shop, products and services to neighbors and visitors who have never been inside her shop before. It makes it more comfortable for shoppers to come back again in the future and that’s what Lily is hoping happens.

No matter what the location, spring offers the opportunity to get out into communities and neighborhoods and meet new people. There are reasons to stay local, in walking communities, finding those hidden treasures in the shops and stores that line Main Street USA. For travelers, stopping in for an event in a new place leads to pleasant surprises. Business owners are eager to please and are looking for new ways to reach consumers. Participating in seasonal and special events is a bonus for business marketing, being part of a group that gets local and sometimes regional attention from the media and the public for the event.

So, this weekend, get out there and check out a local event. There are community calendars filled with lots of events that people have invested time, money and passion into and showing up is a simple way to say thank you.

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Nonprofits have played an important role in who I have become as a professional. In following my passion to serve, I have been a co-founder of grassroots organizations, a volunteer, a board member several times over, an executive director and fundraiser, planning and development team member, capital campaigner, and program manager. All of these roles in the nonprofit business sector were challenging, frustrating, exhilarating and rewarding.

From this perspective, when I began to read The Nimble Nonprofit, it brought up lots of emotion. I clearly remember the feelings of frustration when board members would tie up beneficial work out of fear of the unknown. I also remember the joy of producing programs where people participated and results were off the charts! Some things happened over time, like honey dripping in Alaska’s winter. Other things happened in a flash, when the time was right and the moment was perfect.

One of the first things stated in The Nimble Nonprofit is that nonprofits are businesses. This is something I’ve stated again and again, and any nonprofit in this economy is doomed if it doesn’t act like a business. Having a source (or multiple sources) of revenue, outside of grant funding, is essential! Understanding that flexible planning is a must, and leadership on the board and staff of any nonprofit is what keeps it alive and moving forward.

Where The Nimble Nonprofit really gets it right is in stating the obvious but often unheeded, technology is essential, staff training is essential and transparency is a good thing. Nonprofits have an opportunity to provide not only their products and services to a hungry community, but to serve as leaders in an uncertain world. Creating teams that serve the mission of the nonprofit and their target audience, while also providing the community with leadership and support creates a bond of loyalty and trust. This goes a long way in sharing stories, celebrating successes and facing unforeseen challenges.

Reading The Nimble Nonprofit has given me hope. Authors Jacob Smith and Trey Beck understand the nonprofit world and write from experience. It is a breath of fresh air through an open window, clearly focused on the realities of nonprofits in the midst of change. It is easy to recommend it, and suggest several copies be purchased as gifts for board members, staff and community partners who may benefit from the wisdom inside. There are no easy solutions for the issues facing nonprofits today, yet when change is acknowledged and faced honestly, moving forward is easier for everyone.

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girlHaving a job with health insurance is becoming a luxury these days! If you have a job you like, maybe even enjoy, you are even more lucky. The conversation in the news this week has been about religious institutions who provide health insurance to their employees, and their challenge to maintain their organizational priorities of not supporting the use of contraception, and their responsibility to provide appropriate coverage to employees which may or may NOT believe the same as they do.

As a matter of full disclosure, I am pro-woman, pro-choice and an advocate for equal pay for equal work. When I say pro-choice, that does not mean I am in any stretch of the imagination that I am pro abortion. In a perfect world, I wish that both men and women were able to have children, and understand the implications of having the joy and challenge of carrying and caring for a child within your body then delivering said child into the world through what previously was a very small exit location. In addition, I wish that men were able to feel the violence of an unwanted sex act that results in fear and other negative emotions along with the dread that the experience will continue through a possible pregnancy and birth of a child as a constant reminder of the horror of that event. We live in a sometimes ugly world, and much of the ugliness is experienced more by women than men.

Back to the issue of contraception! Women choose to use contraception for a multitude of reasons. The greatest reason is to be responsible.  The women I know who are of child-bearing age are choosing to use contraceptives because of the following reasons;

1. have chosen NOT to have ANY children

2. have chosen to have children when they (both parties in relationship) are ready

3. have chosen to have children when they are financially prepared

4. have health issues that require special attention during pregnancy and are waiting

5. not in a serious relationship

These women are of various backgrounds, economic situations, and religious persuasions. For those who are Catholic and Christian especially, it is at least partially BECAUSE of their religious convictions that they have chosen to use contraceptives, believing that they want to be responsible when bringing a new life into the world.

No matter where the public dialogue continues on this issue, contraception is a very personal issue. It is a right of women to make a choice for their own bodies, their own health, and between them, their partner and their god. If a woman has to choose between a job she may love, with health insurance that should provide her coverage without discrimination, or being forced to receive care and treatment outside of the health insurance provided, or forced to have a child when she is not ready, financially able or prepared to do so, there is a flaw in the system. This should not be an issue. Shame on those who are shifting the focus of this issue from women’s equal access to health care to a ridiculous “cry wolf” situation over religious freedom.

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clockOn my green business blog, I recently posted about time. It’s a touchy subject for many people who have developed habits that may be comfortable but may not be producing the results they desire. That includes me!

What makes up a day? 24 hours, 60 minute segments to use or throw away, or chunks of 20 minutes that can produce massive progress! This is one of my new strategies. I’m chunking tasks into 20 minute segments. If I need to make phone calls, I have the list of who to call, the reason for the call, the desired result from the call, and the specific action I’m seeking from the person I call prepared, so in case I get a voice mail recording, I’m still accomplishing my mission. If I get a real person, all is good. I’m more focused, I’m to the point and I’m moving forward with my goals.

This isn’t easy. It takes some planning. It is also making a big change in my own patterns. It is stepping out of my comfort zone, where traditionally I’ve worried about making other people comfortable, or not seeming pushy or aggressive, but hey, if you don’t ask for what you really want, how will you get it?!? In The 4-Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss, he shares how he makes time work for him. Part of my strategy is acknowledging that if I focus on what I want, I actually ask for what I want and get an answer. Then I’ll know and can move on. It’s OK when people say no. Then I can shift gears, reformat my strategy, find another way to get where I’m headed and move forward.

This year is all about stepping out of my comfort zone. This is how I’m approaching life these days. If I’m not uncomfortable, I haven’t stretched myself far enough. It’s scary most days. It’s rewarding every day. In my business, I believe in the Rework principles – there’s a better, faster, easier way. I’m focusing on what I really want, and how I want my life to be an adventure. Things could be simpler, but what fun would that be?!? I’m all about the Art of Non-Conformity and finding your voice in a noisy world! If you have some secrets about using time to create positive change, please share!

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Thank you, Paula Deen! Your recent acknowledgement that you are afflicted with not only Type-2 Diabetes but also the arrogance to use it to profit from your vast brand made me get real with myself. I HAD (note PAST TENSE) admired Paula’s ability to share delightfully unhealthy food in a fun and joyful manner. It gave me permission to enjoy said food while knowing that it was doing me no favors. Paula’s determination to freely share the wealth of artery clogging, heart attack inducing recipes from her television shows, her restaurants, her multitude of cookbooks and personal appearances gave the illusion that she was sharing her passion for taste and tradition.

How wrong we all were! Paula has not only lost my respect as a chef, a mother and a business person, but as a woman. She has purposefully and profitably used the past three years to manage her brand to willfully deceive her audience. While she was adjusting her diet, learning to live with her condition, she continued to promote a lifestyle and eating habits that she knew were harming the people who loved her. There were clues to this shift, as Paula appeared recently on Dr. Oz’s show, taking her traditional recipes and making them more healthy as a show segment. With her announcement this week promoting a diabetes drug, and even a questionable diabetes drug, INSTEAD of a clear and strong apology and reformatting of her recipes for better health, she has lost all credibility in my mind.

Paula’s lack of integrity was long noted by Anthony Bourdain of No Reservations. Earlier this week the ongoing feud between the two was ignited when after Paula’s announcement, Bourdain tweeted what’s pictured below.

While Anthony Bourdain and his No Reservations travel show have not been particular about showing his preference for meat and especially his passionate love of pork, he is the first to admit his high cholesterol levels are an ongoing concern and challenge for him.

So, as of today, I have unfollowed, unliked, and totally disconnected with Paula Deen, her brand, her sponsors and any associated connections. I will not be linking to her recipes, visiting her websites or watching her on TV, EVER!!! I am waging my own battle with health and weight loss and making better choices without the inclusion of drugs into the mix. Using drugs to overcome health conditions that are brought on by poor choices only delay the inevitable. If Paula has done me one favor, it is that today, I am free from continuing on a self destructive path. I’m choosing to live a long and healthy life, without Paula Deen and without diabetes as long as I can.

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If you have watched the video of Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. give the I Have a Dream speech, you know the passion that was behind that message. Rev. King was a true leader, courageous, compassionate, strong-willed and a flawed human, as we all are. It was his humanity that drew people to him. He was magnetic in his energy, inviting people to join the cause of freedom for all people.

Here we are, decades later, with a rising tide of discontent across America. The Occupy movement can be found in every state and in the smallest communities as well as the most populated. People are becoming informed and voicing their realities about the issues affecting their lives. There is no real leader of #Occupy, yet the movement and actions continue to grow.

Today, many people have connected with and learned more about #OccupytheDream. On Tuesday, January 17th, many people who have connected with the ideas of #Occupy will arrive in Washington, DC for #OccupyCongress. It has been a hard road to get there. There are stories of people riding public buses from the west coast who were let off because the bus driver was not an #Occupy supporter. Before the day is over, there will be more stories.

#OccupyCongress is only one day. There will be a volume of people who want to be heard. When Rev. King began talking about changing the rules, having a say and gathering people who believed as he did to take action, there was a similar volume of people who wanted to be heard. It is the nature of life, people want to be acknowledged, know they are valued and create the change they desire.

Whatever your feelings about Rev. King and the way he moved forward towards change, or your feelings about how the #Occupy movement is moving forward today, both have a message that cannot be ignored. The problems of today need solutions, for the present and the generations to come. People will find a way to be heard.

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These are challenging times. Not news to any of us but how we each deal with daily challenges is very different. There are some business people in my circles who are so stressed out that they can barely finish a sentence without some prediction of gloom and doom. In my personal circles of friends and family, some are experiencing health problems and other issues related to unemployment, lack of insurance, housing struggles and some even struggle to put gas in the vehicle.

Yet there is another group of people who I treasure, and these are the people who I’m spending more and more time with these days. The people I’m talking about are the ones who, no matter what the situation is, are the ones who learn, face fear and challenges, maintain a positive outlook and overcome adversity to succeed. They are the beacons to follow, the visionaries who are able to accept that change is a constant. No matter where you are in this moment, you will not be there forever. It is their attitude towards life that moves them forward.

While I know how difficult it is to move forward with no promise of success, the other option is not an option for me. If you have a strategy you use to get you through tough times, please share it here. 2012 is set to be a year of intensity, full of change! I’m all for sharing how to survive and thrive together!

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Yesterday, I did the annual visit to Hotel Roanoke to visit the Festival of Trees. Each year, there’s a bounty of ideas that can be gleaned from the beautiful displays. This year, my favorite is the sparkling in white creation featuring feathery owls pictured here. I do not profess to have the skills or abilities to pull something like this off, yet I’m inspired to push myself past my usual decorating style this year for something more grand and unexpected.

There’s much to be said for embracing a new level of creativity. Across this year, the people in my circles that have added the extra touch of color, wore the higher heels, spoke the old words in a new way, those are who have stood out to me. It’s not about change just for the sake of change, but change that is an improvement, a shift in energies that attracts an improved quality of life. Creativity has the power to inspire, encourage and draw attention to something that otherwise would be invisible, part of the every day landscape of life.

Today, my family & I will be out and about, visiting, shopping and holiday site seeing together. I’ll be gathering ideas for new cookies, tree displays and traditions that can be incorporated into the memories we create for the next several weeks. Do you have a holiday tradition that improves with time? Are there new, creative changes added to seasonal celebrations with family that are anticipated for their surprise?

My goal is to keep things simple this year, yet create memories of the special moments that will last a lifetime. Isn’t that what life is all about? Visit again soon to see what I come up with…

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Looking back on this year, I must admit it has turned out differently than I expected. I’m an Aquarius, really deep down in my soul Aquarius, which means I live in the future. My life plan is way past that curve in the road that is far out of sight. Changing paths, changing my mind, and just stopping mid-stream to regroup are strategies I use regularly, to the dismay of many people in my life who just can’t keep up. Now you would think these two approaches would conflict, but not in my mind!

So, along the path this year, I’ve connected with some people who have become my heroes. The two I want to share with you today are directly related to me stepping out of my comfort zone and trusting the Universe that I was in that place at the right moment.

First is my friend, Gabrielle, who is my hero because she embraces her uniqueness. I met her through another friend, who introduced us because we had vintage clothing in common. I had a wealth of true vintage lingerie for sale, and Gabrielle appreciates beautiful vintage fashions. She also knows the value of this type of thing and where to sell it, should you want to part with it.

What has made Gabrielle a hero to me is that she has faced demons in her life, and has come out the other side to tell the tale. She spent many years on the Renaissance circuit, dressed as a wench, selling ladies under-things, and playing the role like the pro she is. These days, she has a cute home in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia, where she occasionally hosts visitors in her Gypsy Wagon or Hacienda overnight. Always shifting decor, moving, lighting, dramatizing the fantasy of the setting, Gabrielle invents a new adventure from the every day. If your path leads you her way, take the time to stop in and check out her version of the “Floyd Experience.”

My other hero is Louise of Thirty Something Bride. She is still experiencing the transition of single to married life, love and how to make it work, and how to still be herself. We met while I was selling vintage stuff in Charlotte, North Carolina, shedding much of my past to grasp a fresh future. Louise can see through the dust and age of long boxed up and discolored things, and is able to turn pieces of the past in to works of art that become treasured pieces of life’s memorable occasions. The thing that makes her my hero is that she  is not only a talented seamstress, but that she is also a word maestro! She has taken her blog, talking about beautiful people, places and things, and created a masterpiece of visual and written excellence. Every visit to her blog takes me deeper into a shimmering world where people carefully craft and celebrate the moments of life that have meaning.

These two women are very different. They have both added a much needed and unexpected texture to my life that I truly enjoy. This is why they are my heroes. I didn’t see them coming on the path. I didn’t dodge them because they were different than the people I usually connect with, or seek out. I embraced how different we were to each other and embraced the experience. And now, looking back, I’m so grateful.

Is there anyone that has been a hero in your life this year? Is there any experience that pushed you out of your comfort zone and shifted your thinking? Share your comments here and explore how 2011 has evolved for you!

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