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Fall and early winter have turned into a season of one holiday morphing into the next.  After Labor Day, the first weekend in September in the US, if stores have not set up Christmas displays already (some started in AUGUST this year), they are very visible by Halloween in October. It all seems too much, commercializing what is supposed to be a spirit of peace and love shared globally.

This year, I’ve noticed a clear trend with both corporate and personal messages online. The long and continuing economic stress that affects everyone’s life at some level is shifting, with businesses and individuals providing uplifting and inspiring messages. One example is The Bing Magical Holiday Calendar. Each day a new opportunity for a holiday surprise is available for 24 hours. Sometimes a contest or a discount, the invitation is commercial yet feels much more generous than some of the other “Buy it now or suffer” messages so prevalent this time of year. It may be just me, but I’d really love some release from the pressure of frenzied buying.

The other effort that has emerged to impress this season is on Google+.  I joined that community enthusiastically in July. It has the same elements of other social networks, following, friending, conversations and stalkers. It also has been for me, a breath of fresh air. My experience so far has allowed me to connect with intelligent, thoughtful and giving people from all over the world. With the launch of Google+ Business Pages in October, I’m learning more each day about new companies who are seeking to make a positive difference for their consumers, employees and investors.

The holiday effort on Google+ that has generated attention recently is +SecretSanta. Time Magazine shared the project on it’s G+ page this past week. Carter Gibson created the effort and manages the project with a group of elves, sharing featured Wish Lists and the resulting joys of gifts received. How cool is that for a random act of kindness that just keeps going?!?

I’ll be giving a lot this holiday. It’s time for me to lighten the load, as some would say. I’m ending a decade of my selling of gift shop inventory after the holidays, boxing up and donating much of it to charity groups who are helping victims of domestic violence and homelessness. While I don’t have cash to give, I do have so many beautiful things that bring joy to people who are suffering. Isn’t that what the holidays are about?!?  I’d love to hear what the holidays mean to you and how you are celebrating this December. It really is a beautiful time to make a difference ;~)

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Today is special. The time has come for a new beginning. There are shifts in priorities, with ideas connecting what can happen when minds open to different ways of doing things. I’m making it personal.

Over the past few years, I’ve struggled. There have been challenges with my family, health issues, separations, divorces, all the things that people face together. There have been changes professionally, keeping up with an ever evolving field of technology and marketing, and how to maneuver through the chaos and be heard. Most of all, there has been an internal struggle in my heart and deep within my soul. I have been doing what I thought I should do for everyone else instead of what I know I need to do for me.

I’m facing a period of time where I have responsibilities to my teenage son at one end of the spectrum and my 80+ year old Mom on the other. I know I’m not alone in having to deal with this. I’m also facing the fact that I have to create an income that not only supports me, but allows me to save for my own health care, retirement and emergencies. As an entrepreneur, there’s no perks, no paid holidays, no benefits package unless I budget it for myself.

On a deeper level, I believe I’m in this place in time for a reason. My deeply held spiritual convictions are that there is something we are each put here to do. I hold a broad perspective that we are all more alike than we are different. With that said, my vision is to create a respectful dialogue between what is not working in our world and possible solutions that can be accomplished serving the greater good. It’s not a dream, it’s an imperative for our time.

There is the reality, illuminated for me and the world. I’ll be using this space to share the journey. Some posts will be personal. Some posts will be spiritual. Some posts will be political. All posts will be expressing my own opinion and will invite polite and respectful discourse. I’m energized to embark on this adventure. Join me!

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Japan EarthquakeIn the wake of the horrible earthquake and tsunamis this week, I had what Oprah would call an “Ah-ha” moment. It is more important than ever that we come together as humanity in all areas of living. This morning there is a group I’m connected to, and I strongly support, who are holding a peaceful parade demonstration in Fort Myers Beach, Florida.  They have gathered to promote the same idea, that we really are One Human Family. It’s not a difficult concept to embrace. You only have to acknowledge that we all are only skin and bones, blood and brains, heart and soul.

What has moved me to write this post is that there are competing efforts trying to cause fear and distrust among us. Now, I’m not saying that there aren’t bad people out there who will take an opportunity to do bad things on purpose. They are more plentiful than I would like. I’m specifically talking about people who are focused on creating the emotion of fear to guide our daily thoughts and actions.

One example is the 2012 predictions of the world ending. I found this advertisement recently for the 2012 Survival Guide. I don’t know if it’s true or not ~ it doesn’t matter. It probably wouldn’t hurt to follow some of the advice in the guide. Living in a rural community, you never know when the electric will go out or the well will go bad or a multitude of other things that can happen. Being prepared is always a good thing. If you live in an urban or suburban community, there’s still things that can and do go wrong and being prepared to live a few hours or even days without creature comforts like water and power on demand may be a good thing.

The other side of that coin is that I’m not prepared to live waiting for the sky to fall, Henny Penny… I have faith that as One Human Family, we are all connected and when times get tough, we look out for each other. I’ve lived though times of struggle and times of reward and no matter where I’ve been on the ride of life, there are people there with me who support me and are there to celebrate with me.

So, how are you prepared for challenging times? Who is around you that can support you and you support them in times of physical or emotional challenge? Have you said thank you recently to someone who was there for you in the past? I’ll be sending this post to a few people in my network who I truly appreciate. It matters when you reach out and touch someone’s life. Make each moment count!

UPDATE: other people are thinking about this too… Here’s Jamie Lee Curtis post on Huffington Post

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womanOn this day 100 years ago, the first International Women’s Day was celebrated.

“Following the decision agreed at Copenhagen in 1911, International Women’s Day (IWD) was honoured the first time in Austria, Denmark, Germany and Switzerland on 19 March. More than one million women and men attended IWD rallies campaigning for women’s rights to work, vote, be trained, to hold public office and end discrimination. However less than a week later on 25 March, the tragic ‘Triangle Fire’ in New York City took the lives of more than 140 working women, most of them Italian and Jewish immigrants. This disastrous event drew significant attention to working conditions and labour legislation in the United States that became a focus of subsequent International Women’s Day events.”

from the website http://www.internationalwomensday.com

My grandmother was born in 1906. She grew up during the difficult years of women’s sufferage, two World Wars and the Great Depression. Her family lived in New York City when she was young and she told stories of the livery stables her father owned. She would ride with him to deliver blocks of ice to the first iceboxes in New York’s famous walkups, carrying heavy ice blocks up flights of stairs to well populated apartments in the heat of summer and the cold of winter. After graduating from high school, she went to work in New York’s garment district, working as a secretary and bookkeeper for a hat maker. These were tough times and getting ahead meant working hard and sticking with it.

Fast forward to today’s International Women’s Day and we’re in similar times. Our global economic situation forces women to be creative, think and act strategically to get ahead, and to never quit. It is only the determination of women that has continued to move society forward, providing children, families and communities the support, leadership and action to accomplish great things.

In my grandmother’s things, I found the following treasure… I share it here in hopes that you, dear reader, will share it with others.

Don’t Quit

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sign,
When care is pressing you down a bit ~
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a fellow turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don’t give up though the pace seems slow ~
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is ‘nearer than
It seems to a faint and faltering man;
Often the struggler has given up
When he might have captured the victor’s cup;
And he learned too late when the night came down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out ~
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit, ~
It’s when things seem worst that you mustn’t quit.

Author Unknown

*** image thanks to http://vintageholidaycrafts.com/free-vintage-clip-art-people-around-the-world/ ***

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It’s 2011 and no, I don’t have any resolutions to share. Time matches on and I’m sticking to what works now and will continue to work for me in the future.

I’m going to share a few things that have consistently made a difference in my life. The first is something that has come back into style, something I never walked away from, even when it was frowned upon. Curious?

I’m a 3rd generation coupon user! Not only do I use coupons regularly, I also save proofs of purchase for promotional products. (My annual Christmas tree has beautiful Campbells Kids blown glass ornaments and white satin cats from Fancy Feast.) I have a coupon envelop filled with coupons on products that I use, ready for when an item goes on sale.

On the weeks when I’m doing major grocery shopping, I’ll load my store card with paperless coupons. I make a list (TIP ~ ALWAYS make a list, you WILL SAVE $$$!) and organize my paper coupons. I average 20-30% savings on each trip. It’s worth picking up the Sunday paper to get the coupons, and I usually donate unused coupons to a senior center or another charity (and I recycle the paper as packing for shipping Ebay purchases).

The second thing I want to share is that I’m an avid supporter of consignment shops, again, something I’ve always done. When I was young, my parents divorced and my mom had to be creative to stretch our family budget. We would shop in consignment shops for clothes, toys and other household items. It was like a treasure hunt! It was also one of the first ways I learned about giving back. When my sister and I got tired of a toy or outgrew an item of clothing, we would donate it. We knew someone else like us would benefit, along with the consignment shop organization, usually a hospital at that time.

Today, consignment shops are an important part of my frugal lifestyle, the closer to home the better! I like shopping in local consignment shops for fashion trends, bargains and home furnishings. I donate to Goodwill to support their efforts to provide employment, recycle and reuse. I receive a tax deduction and I shop in the stores for craft supplies, gently used clothing and home décor. Plus, I’m back in my childhood on the treasure hunt, it’s FUN!

Lastly, I wanted to share something that looks to be an important trend in 2011, which is attitude. I’ve been accused of being eternally optimistic, sometimes to a fault. Life is not perfect, but if you decide each day is a gift, you will find the blessing in each challenge. My life is full of challenges right now. Every day, my choice is to make the most of the challenges and the blessings and make something wonderful from the mix, always maintaining a positive attitude. It doesn’t always work out how I would like. Sometimes things fall into place BETTER than I had ever imagined!

I’d love to hear how your 2011 is evolving so far. Comment, email me or share your thoughts with me on Facebook, Twitter or Linked In.

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I’ve been busy clearing the moving clutter, clearing the store inventory boxes and such and had to get out of the house this past weekend.  My son and I visited with my good friend, Jill Freeman and her family in Pennsylvania first. We went to the Saturday morning market in downtown Lancaster and had some bakery treats. Then we headed out to Lititz a few miles away, just for a little shopping therapy.

Sunday we headed to the beach to see my mom and so Josh could go surf fishing. It’s a completely different thing than fresh water fishing and he loves it. Late Monday night he caught a large skate, which was a big deal and a good fish story for him to tell.

Tuesday morning, I got up early, had my coffee, packed the car and Josh even got up on his own, good kid that he is. My mom was having a few minutes with him over breakfast and I went out and walked the dog around the block. We rounded the corner to a favorite telephone pole and that was where we met Duke. He poked his head out from behind a house, looking for a friendly face, and there we were! He came right over, all 70+ pounds of him, ready to introduce himself to my 3.5 pound Squeak. No, up Squeak came, into my arms and we headed back to the house.

SqueakWell, Duke was persistent. He followed us down the street, into the yard and right up to the door. I put Squeak inside and proceeded to get to know Duke. He had no collar, was well fed and very friendly, even got some kisses!!! I walked him around the block on our little leash, or should I say he walked me around the block… anyway, no people looking for a dog and no one around to recognize him.

At this point I should say that I grew up in this neighborhood, where in the summer, all is fun and sun and beach and friends and family. Then when it’s time to go home for the winter, people have been known to leave their pets behind. I was always finding dogs and cats and having to watch as they were driven away to their unknown ends. It wasn’t going to happen to Duke!

Josh sat with the big dog on my mom’s porch while we called the police. It just so happened that 10 minutes before someone had called about a missing dog with Duke’s description! They were in the driveway in a flash. Two women jumped from the car, full of adrenaline from the hunt of finding their love, their Duke! He was just as happy to see them. It was a good reunion.

But that wasn’t the end of the story… I had to get back to Virginia to vote before 7pm and I did it, at 6:50! It was important to me to do the right thing, which was first to care for the life of a beautiful animal that for whatever reason crossed my path that morning. The other right thing was to vote, to show my son that some days, no matter the challenge, no matter the obstacles, you stay the course and do what must be done. I’ve only missed a couple of mid-term elections, and never missed voting in the presidential elections. It’s important and I’m glad I made it.

Hope your election day was as fulfilling as mine.

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My son and I moved into a new apartment this month. I still haven’t found all my Ebay and Etsy inventory for the holidays yet, but things are getting more organized every day.

My goal is to simplify my life over the next few months. I’ve been working with some new media clients that are passionate about their businesses and where they want to take them, which makes me more passionate about helping them achieve their goals. This takes focus, on tasks, on time and on priorities, which leads me to the simplify goal.

Bearington Bear
I have too much stuff! I closed two retail locations full of beautiful things in the past few years. My mother sold our family home in Philadelphia back in 2006 and I was the recipient of the boxes of miscellaneous doo-dads and gizmos and remnants of all the years (since 1930, YES!) spent in that home. Some of the boxes that I’m now discovering have not been opened since sometime in the 1930s or 40s!

Over this holiday season, starting this weekend in fact, I’ll be listing most of these treasures on Ebay and Etsy. I have two boys who have no interest in most of these things, that are really just that, things… I have to remember the memories attached are where the real value lies.

So I ask, dear reader, if you seek some unique gifts for your family and friends this holiday season, take a look. If you find more than one something that you desire, I’m happy to combine shipping and offer generous discounts, even free shipping if your purchase is over $70. I truly want the world to enjoy what has been hidden in boxes for some time and create new memories of your own.

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My summer has not worked out exactly how I planned. My son and I traveled north to visit with my mom, what a cutie she is! We spent some time at the beach and visited some sites we had on our “list”. We came back to Virginia in early July and the heat and surprising new business (yeah!) have kept us busy since then.

Until Tuesday, when I was invited to join a new friend, Dewey Houck, on a visit to West Virginia, to his home town. On first glance, Dewey is an intelligent southern gentleman. Then you talk with him just a bit more to find he is a man possessed by a mission to serve. He is driven to make a positive difference in the region of his origins, the coalfields of southern West Virginia.

We spent the day on a whirlwind tour of places and projects and meeting people who are making things happen! Dewey is the energy behind RAIL, Rural Appalachian Improvement League, based in his home town of Mullens, West Virginia. At the Mullens Opportunity Center, in the old Mullens Elementary School, there is a bustle of activity. Businesses are renting space, other nonprofit groups have offices, there’s a garden growing food, plus an outdoor entertainment center with indoor and outdoor stages. This is also homebase for visiting volunteers who come to provide labor, equipment and funds to local projects.

On Friday, August 6, RAIL is hosting a community health fair at the Mullens Opportunity Center. There’s a flea market and gun show plus health professionals providing checks on blood pressure and information on healthy eating. I’m sure there’s much more going on but like I said in the beginning, my day with Dewey was a whirlwind. We did get to visit one of the major projects receiving attention right now, the historic Mount Grove Baptist Church in Wyco.

Mount Grove Baptist Church

I’ll be working with RAIL in the coming months, helping them access funding and other organizational efforts. This is a group doing BIG things, things that need to be done where so many others have looked away. Visit here to make a donation and know any amount will go a very long way to making lives better for the people of southern West Virginia. If you’re traveling in the area, be sure to check out the Coal Heritage Trail.

I’m always surprised what I can learn on a little day trip right in my own backyard…

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New programs, services, applications and tools are coming to market at a dizzying rate. There’s not enough time in anyone’s life to do it all. So, you have to choose what works best for what you want to get done.

During May, my team and I participated in the Hootsuite University program, achieving the Hootsuite Professional certification. This is a membership program with a monthly subscription fee providing an introduction to Hootsuite’s tools and best practices. We completed our certification May 28 and loved the program!

Hootsuite is an easy to use online new media service helping users maintain multiple media streams (social media accounts, blogs, etc.) from one screen. You can send messages to one or all registered accounts, and view multiple columns of replies, keyword tracking and much more. Hootsuite allows users to schedule messages for sending later, which is the feature I like the most. It makes it convenient for businesses who want to maintain their online visibility to send messages when they are actually busy running their business, best of both worlds!

Hootsuite is an online service, no downloads, no upgrades, no hassles. It is the service I recommend to new users because of the simplicity and a service I recommend to experienced users because of the layers of data that can be mined. URL shortening, keyword tracking, conversation management, Hootsuite has it all! If you think this is an advertisement, you are wrong. I really believe in this tool and the value it provides to users. (After achieving the Hootsuite Professionals certification, I did discontinue that membership but only because I felt I reached my goal and got the results I wanted for my investment.) If you have a Hootsuite success story or challenge, please share it by commenting here.

What services are working best for your business? Individual professionals each have a technology comfort zone. Do you prefer to post live direct to services like Facebook and LinkedIn or do you manage your new media from a desktop application like Tweetdeck or SocialOomph? Limiting time spent online has led me to greater focus and better results. Using Hootsuite has allowed me to focus on creating timely messages that meet my goals and provide value to my networks.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing about what is working in new media for you!

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If you haven’t heard, some social media services have been cavalier with users’ privacy recently. There are investigations, changes in terms of service, and media coverage with talking heads expressing everything from complacency to outrage.

It’s also the 25th anniversary of AOL, the service that gave us all that wonderful welcome to electronic connections, “You’ve got mail!” Everytime I heard that, even on my sloooooooooooooow rural connection of 28,000BTS in the beginning, I felt welcomed, comforted that someone was reaching out to me. With time, that feeling passed into concern then distrust as the level of spam increased. AOL is now a struggling company, a relic of the not so distant online past.

Fast forward to the present and there has been a torrent of new social media services emmerging lately, and those that have been around only a short while have numbers of users previously unimaginable, which is why I’m writing this post. We can’t see the future!

If you are doing business of any kind on line, it is imperitive to learn how to use the tools and services available. It is also imperitive to understand NOTHING, and I mean really NOTHING is FOREVER! What is popular, top of the search results, most talked about, highest number of users, WHATEVER! may only be “all that” for a very short period of time. Even more important is that when you are connecting online, it is the individual relationships that you develop that have the real value.

I treasure my online networks! The relationships that I have developed with my followers and friends are positive, uplifting, inspiring, and encouraging. My focus has been and will continue to be to promote my brand, my core principles and be open-minded when connecting with social media. My service of choice is Twitter (I’m @bgreen) and I can be found on many others as well.

If you have any comments about this topic, any news on up and coming services or tools you would like to share, or have a question about social media, please share below. Thanks for taking the time to stop by!

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