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This post isn’t about climate change or dramatic weather events or even that it is winter, yes, just the first weeks of winter. Today I’m writing in response to the ludacris actions of the United States House of Representatives Leadership to NOT vote on the relief bill for victims of Superstorm Sandy. Here is the reaction of New Jersey Governor Chris Christie, who speaks for many of us today.

Tired doesn’t even cover it! On a very personal level, my mother has been displaced since Oct 27th when I evacuated her from her home on one of New Jersey’s barrier islands. My sister, who is a warrior angel, has been dealing with the paperwork nightmare on my mother’s behalf, working through the FEMA process, meeting with insurance agents, inspectors, investigators, estimators, contractors, and others who are involved in what we hope will result in making my mother’s life whole again. Both my sister and I, as well as our families, have invested thousands of dollars to care for our mother, instead of having her cared for by a system that is worse than broken. If she had been trying to deal with the mound of paperwork this has involved so far, and we’re no where near done, she would have gone over the edge.

If we had not taken these actions, more than likely, she would be dead now. She suffers from severe osteoporosis, COPD and is almost completely deaf. She does not adjust to change well, a trait she shares with many elderly people. She would not have gone easily to a shelter, or shared temporary housing and she most certainly would not have been able to maintain her schedule required for meals, medications and maintaining some level of a comfort zone. She would have become beligerent, argumentative and would have given up. She is not alone, only one example of a resident who spent her life saving, working hard, doing the right thing to retire to her dream beach house (a modest historic structure, just for the record) to find her dreams shattered.

Superstorm Sandy

Her friends and neighbors have suffered as well, with routines, support systems, health care, educational institutions and basic services all in turmoil. As the mountains of depris have been picked up, finally, they have left behind a trail of smaller depris, resulting in flat tires, damaged roads, and much more clean up to come. Many of the damaged homes have not even been visited by their owners, maybe because of distance, expense or maybe because of despair. If a home is not a primary residence, or have flood insurance, or a multitude of other situations including levels of damage, it may become a complete loss and have to be torn down. It is devastation, and if it does not receive attention NOW, the tourism dollars and the next few summers will be much different. Much of the real impact of Sandy is yet to be realized! The stress is overwhelming and the frustration is rising.

There is such a disconnect between the real world and the people who are currently running our government. The United States Congress is out of touch with the people who they represent. I am one of many who believe they should be stripped of their salaries, benefits and privileges and made to work by the hour, for minimum wage to start, as most of their constiuents do. Only after they produce real results, and only then, should they be given an opportunity to continue in their position of service. And there is the bottom line, service. It is their job to help, to be of service to the people who elected them. If a business EVER handled the operations of their business in this manner, they would be out of business quickly! This is my plea, to help me help you, Mr. Politician, do something for the people devastated by Superstorm Sandy, before its too late! Kudos to you, Governor Christie, for taking a stand on behalf of the people of New Jersey.

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It’s been a challenging 2012…

There was no one who could have known what crazy weather we would have experienced this year. There’s no one who would have said that several crazy people would randomly kill innocent people in malls and schools this year. There’s no one who would have said with confidence that President Barack Obama would have been reelected and that the United States would continue to be held hostage by one of the least productive Congress that is out of touch with the majority of the real people and problems of our nation.

Courage has been my friend!

I was forced, by choice and by circumstance, to face some issues, to take actions that propelled me out of my comfort zone. Situations came up that had to be dealt with, action had to be taken quickly! When a hurricane is coming, and your mother lives on a barrier island in the path of the hurricane, you go get your mother and head the other direction. When you get back, and your mother’s home is not how it was when you left, you clean up the mess. It’s that simple.

It hasn’t been easy. It has made me stronger. Seeking always to maintain a positive outlook, no matter what the challenge, has allowed me to overcome the obstacles. It has helped me flex the muscles that aren’t used as often as they should.

Advice for 2013 from some very smart people…

I’ve been online since 1992. I’ve been selling online since 2000. I started studying internet marketing in 2002. I joined Twitter in 2008 and found my passion with social media and internet marketing. Over all these years, I’ve connected with some exceptional people! The video below is some advice for 2013 from just a few of them…

Pick your word and USE IT!

My word for 2013 is COURAGE. I’m stepping out, taking actions, sharing my story and being confident, building the muscles I need for total, outstanding and extreme success in 2013. There is no other option. It is time and the time is now.

What is your word for 2013 and why? Grateful we are connected and happy to support you on your journey into the New Year of 2013!

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Nonprofits have played an important role in who I have become as a professional. In following my passion to serve, I have been a co-founder of grassroots organizations, a volunteer, a board member several times over, an executive director and fundraiser, planning and development team member, capital campaigner, and program manager. All of these roles in the nonprofit business sector were challenging, frustrating, exhilarating and rewarding.

From this perspective, when I began to read The Nimble Nonprofit, it brought up lots of emotion. I clearly remember the feelings of frustration when board members would tie up beneficial work out of fear of the unknown. I also remember the joy of producing programs where people participated and results were off the charts! Some things happened over time, like honey dripping in Alaska’s winter. Other things happened in a flash, when the time was right and the moment was perfect.

One of the first things stated in The Nimble Nonprofit is that nonprofits are businesses. This is something I’ve stated again and again, and any nonprofit in this economy is doomed if it doesn’t act like a business. Having a source (or multiple sources) of revenue, outside of grant funding, is essential! Understanding that flexible planning is a must, and leadership on the board and staff of any nonprofit is what keeps it alive and moving forward.

Where The Nimble Nonprofit really gets it right is in stating the obvious but often unheeded, technology is essential, staff training is essential and transparency is a good thing. Nonprofits have an opportunity to provide not only their products and services to a hungry community, but to serve as leaders in an uncertain world. Creating teams that serve the mission of the nonprofit and their target audience, while also providing the community with leadership and support creates a bond of loyalty and trust. This goes a long way in sharing stories, celebrating successes and facing unforeseen challenges.

Reading The Nimble Nonprofit has given me hope. Authors Jacob Smith and Trey Beck understand the nonprofit world and write from experience. It is a breath of fresh air through an open window, clearly focused on the realities of nonprofits in the midst of change. It is easy to recommend it, and suggest several copies be purchased as gifts for board members, staff and community partners who may benefit from the wisdom inside. There are no easy solutions for the issues facing nonprofits today, yet when change is acknowledged and faced honestly, moving forward is easier for everyone.

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If you have watched the video of Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. give the I Have a Dream speech, you know the passion that was behind that message. Rev. King was a true leader, courageous, compassionate, strong-willed and a flawed human, as we all are. It was his humanity that drew people to him. He was magnetic in his energy, inviting people to join the cause of freedom for all people.

Here we are, decades later, with a rising tide of discontent across America. The Occupy movement can be found in every state and in the smallest communities as well as the most populated. People are becoming informed and voicing their realities about the issues affecting their lives. There is no real leader of #Occupy, yet the movement and actions continue to grow.

Today, many people have connected with and learned more about #OccupytheDream. On Tuesday, January 17th, many people who have connected with the ideas of #Occupy will arrive in Washington, DC for #OccupyCongress. It has been a hard road to get there. There are stories of people riding public buses from the west coast who were let off because the bus driver was not an #Occupy supporter. Before the day is over, there will be more stories.

#OccupyCongress is only one day. There will be a volume of people who want to be heard. When Rev. King began talking about changing the rules, having a say and gathering people who believed as he did to take action, there was a similar volume of people who wanted to be heard. It is the nature of life, people want to be acknowledged, know they are valued and create the change they desire.

Whatever your feelings about Rev. King and the way he moved forward towards change, or your feelings about how the #Occupy movement is moving forward today, both have a message that cannot be ignored. The problems of today need solutions, for the present and the generations to come. People will find a way to be heard.

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Yesterday, I did the annual visit to Hotel Roanoke to visit the Festival of Trees. Each year, there’s a bounty of ideas that can be gleaned from the beautiful displays. This year, my favorite is the sparkling in white creation featuring feathery owls pictured here. I do not profess to have the skills or abilities to pull something like this off, yet I’m inspired to push myself past my usual decorating style this year for something more grand and unexpected.

There’s much to be said for embracing a new level of creativity. Across this year, the people in my circles that have added the extra touch of color, wore the higher heels, spoke the old words in a new way, those are who have stood out to me. It’s not about change just for the sake of change, but change that is an improvement, a shift in energies that attracts an improved quality of life. Creativity has the power to inspire, encourage and draw attention to something that otherwise would be invisible, part of the every day landscape of life.

Today, my family & I will be out and about, visiting, shopping and holiday site seeing together. I’ll be gathering ideas for new cookies, tree displays and traditions that can be incorporated into the memories we create for the next several weeks. Do you have a holiday tradition that improves with time? Are there new, creative changes added to seasonal celebrations with family that are anticipated for their surprise?

My goal is to keep things simple this year, yet create memories of the special moments that will last a lifetime. Isn’t that what life is all about? Visit again soon to see what I come up with…

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womanOn this day 100 years ago, the first International Women’s Day was celebrated.

“Following the decision agreed at Copenhagen in 1911, International Women’s Day (IWD) was honoured the first time in Austria, Denmark, Germany and Switzerland on 19 March. More than one million women and men attended IWD rallies campaigning for women’s rights to work, vote, be trained, to hold public office and end discrimination. However less than a week later on 25 March, the tragic ‘Triangle Fire’ in New York City took the lives of more than 140 working women, most of them Italian and Jewish immigrants. This disastrous event drew significant attention to working conditions and labour legislation in the United States that became a focus of subsequent International Women’s Day events.”

from the website http://www.internationalwomensday.com

My grandmother was born in 1906. She grew up during the difficult years of women’s sufferage, two World Wars and the Great Depression. Her family lived in New York City when she was young and she told stories of the livery stables her father owned. She would ride with him to deliver blocks of ice to the first iceboxes in New York’s famous walkups, carrying heavy ice blocks up flights of stairs to well populated apartments in the heat of summer and the cold of winter. After graduating from high school, she went to work in New York’s garment district, working as a secretary and bookkeeper for a hat maker. These were tough times and getting ahead meant working hard and sticking with it.

Fast forward to today’s International Women’s Day and we’re in similar times. Our global economic situation forces women to be creative, think and act strategically to get ahead, and to never quit. It is only the determination of women that has continued to move society forward, providing children, families and communities the support, leadership and action to accomplish great things.

In my grandmother’s things, I found the following treasure… I share it here in hopes that you, dear reader, will share it with others.

Don’t Quit

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sign,
When care is pressing you down a bit ~
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a fellow turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don’t give up though the pace seems slow ~
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is ‘nearer than
It seems to a faint and faltering man;
Often the struggler has given up
When he might have captured the victor’s cup;
And he learned too late when the night came down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out ~
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit, ~
It’s when things seem worst that you mustn’t quit.

Author Unknown

*** image thanks to http://vintageholidaycrafts.com/free-vintage-clip-art-people-around-the-world/ ***

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My summer has not worked out exactly how I planned. My son and I traveled north to visit with my mom, what a cutie she is! We spent some time at the beach and visited some sites we had on our “list”. We came back to Virginia in early July and the heat and surprising new business (yeah!) have kept us busy since then.

Until Tuesday, when I was invited to join a new friend, Dewey Houck, on a visit to West Virginia, to his home town. On first glance, Dewey is an intelligent southern gentleman. Then you talk with him just a bit more to find he is a man possessed by a mission to serve. He is driven to make a positive difference in the region of his origins, the coalfields of southern West Virginia.

We spent the day on a whirlwind tour of places and projects and meeting people who are making things happen! Dewey is the energy behind RAIL, Rural Appalachian Improvement League, based in his home town of Mullens, West Virginia. At the Mullens Opportunity Center, in the old Mullens Elementary School, there is a bustle of activity. Businesses are renting space, other nonprofit groups have offices, there’s a garden growing food, plus an outdoor entertainment center with indoor and outdoor stages. This is also homebase for visiting volunteers who come to provide labor, equipment and funds to local projects.

On Friday, August 6, RAIL is hosting a community health fair at the Mullens Opportunity Center. There’s a flea market and gun show plus health professionals providing checks on blood pressure and information on healthy eating. I’m sure there’s much more going on but like I said in the beginning, my day with Dewey was a whirlwind. We did get to visit one of the major projects receiving attention right now, the historic Mount Grove Baptist Church in Wyco.

Mount Grove Baptist Church

I’ll be working with RAIL in the coming months, helping them access funding and other organizational efforts. This is a group doing BIG things, things that need to be done where so many others have looked away. Visit here to make a donation and know any amount will go a very long way to making lives better for the people of southern West Virginia. If you’re traveling in the area, be sure to check out the Coal Heritage Trail.

I’m always surprised what I can learn on a little day trip right in my own backyard…

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For anyone who may have missed me recently, I moved again. It seems like many people are moving these days. My move was because the property where I was living is being sold. Other people I know are moving to take new jobs, are selling their homes and some even losing their homes to foreclosure. It’s a time of change, spring seems to bring that on…

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In my case, the move is temporary, just getting through until the end of the school year for my teenage son. This is his last year before high school in our area. Translation, this is the last year I’ll have his attention as a child before he transmutes into his next phase. Parents, you know what I mean!

So, after school gets out, he and I are going on the road. We’ll be visiting people we have missed and places we have not been for a while. Going to see my Mom at the Jersey shore is the first stop. We also have planned a visit to Graceland in Memphis, Tennessee. I believe it’s a right of passage to pay homage to The King. There’s talk of mining for gold and other treasures, fishing at a variety of spots as yet only seen on TV and in magazines, and spending time outdoors, on the road, together.

Does this sound selfish? Sometimes I think it does, but most of the time as I anticipate the months to come, I think this is one of the smartest choices I’ve ever made. Time is short and time with those you love is always way too short. Travel has been a great teacher for me, exposing ideas and lifestyles and cultures I had never imagined, most times completely by surprise. I want to share that sense of exploration and adventure with my son and watch as he is surprised by what life has to offer.

I’m making some big shifts between now and when we leave on our adventure in June. The “stuff” that has followed me is being shed, sold, donated and stored. Only the bare, naked minimum will be packed for this road trip. I’ll probably go through some withdrawals, and have some free time on my hands that I used to spend looking for stuff in the stuff (mostly paper and Ebay inventory LOL) but it’s a good process, letting go. The real challenge will be not to collect more stuff on the road!

If you have a good road story, please share! I’ll be posting more as preparations continue… today, be present!

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This past weekend I participated in the 3rd annual Roanoke Regional Writer’s Conference at Hollins University. In the two previous years, I’ve learned from experienced professional writers who shared their passion for the craft and determination to maintain quality in the field.

After two days of reflection on this year’s event, I must share it has gone deeper. I was asked to present on a topic I am entrenched in, Twitter, as just one of the workshops on Writers and Social Media. Social media has overtaken many conversations relating to communications, business and personal connecting, but this weekend’s gathering of well-versed and well-read writers had quite a diverse attraction or aversion to it.

Twitter is not easily explained or even demonstrated. You have to have a desire to understand and participate. I had created what I thought was an easy how-to for new Twitter users, but quickly began to see that seasoned writers may not appreciate the immediacy of a message that is thought, entered, then gone. There is little editing and proper grammar and correct spelling are not requirements of tweeting.

What I now have clarified in my mind is that Twitter is an art form of its own. It is the 140-character invitation to connect. It is a headline to shock, mystify, share, comfort or cajole. It is a beginning, a bread-crumb bird trail to further words which will inform or incite you.

I just wish I had come to this realization last week. So for today, I share my epiphany and announce there are more coming because great writers inspire and encourage. I’m grateful I live in a community overflowing with brilliance!

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The “National Energy Education Development (N.E.E.D.) Project is a nonprofit organization dedicated to educating students, teachers, and the community about energy and energy issues.” That’s the formal description of the program, but I met the students in this year’s NEED class at Thaxton Elementary yesterday. They are bright, fun and inquisitive young people who are learning and doing great things. Their teacher, Mrs. Viola Henry, had brought the class to the Green Living and Energy Expo at the Roanoke Civic Center to be recognized for participating in the Expo event for all 10 years it has been held. Their school program has been in place even longer, since 1993! They are creating products from recycled goods and selling them to support their program and their creativity amazes me!!!

Over the course of the day I met more students from local schools, regional business owners and managers, educators, and lots of people who are looking to improve their lives and the planet by taking action. It is an honor to be participating in this 10th annual event as it continues to grow and improve each year.

If you’re in the Roanoke area today, stop by and take a walk through, free admission and open 10:00am to 4:00pm.

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