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I’ve been thinking a lot about this recently. Not because I’m sick or anything like that, but more because there are only so many moments in a life, and I want to make more of the ones I get. Today, as I sometimes do when I want to decompress, I visited YouTube and checked the new releases on the channels I subscribe to. What I found was a TedTalk about just this topic… Before I Die…

Over the next few months and possibly years, I’ll be living in a middle ground. I have one son who is in high school and will be college bound within 2-3 years. I also have another son who is in a career transition (yes, code for unemployed…) and  a mother who is in her 80s, needs more attention and will eventually be living closer to me as she transitions into assisted living. Responsibilities to loved ones and responsibility to self…

So I began to think about what is it I want to do before I die? Where do I want to travel? Who do I want to spend my time with? When do I want to settle down and set roots? and how will that look? Will I have my cottage in the woods, with the little garden and the mountain views and the outdoor solar shower? with my big dogs and little dogs and a barn cat for good measure??? OR do I want to get a cozy RV and drive, seeing friends and family, making new friends, seeing new sights, watching new sunrises and sunsets? There’s a few books to write and many discoveries to be made, like which shade of purple or green or yellow is my favorite? And the FOOD and WINE and MICROBREWS! So many flavors and textures, cool and hot and sweet and savory and sour to taste!

My mind is racing, and my body is ready for a challenge. Where will I hike or bike or ride or run or SWIM or DANCE!?! How hard am I willing to work to reach the summit? What will the view be when I arrive? Will it be worth it and will it make me only hunger for more? There are only so many questions I can ask before my mind screams stop, slow down, let’s just do today.

But that is the dilemma! I don’t know when the clock will run out or begin to run down so that the things that I want to do will become only a dream. I don’t want to wait! So, for the rest of this year, 2012, whether or not it is truly the end of the world, I will not wait to have the life of my dreams. I will do what I want to do before I die. And what will you be doing before YOU die?!?

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I’m headed to a very important event this week, the Type-A Parent Conference in Charlotte, North Carolina. I attended back in 2010 when I was still working “behind the scenes” much of the time. The event is jam-packed with value, super-stars in the blogging world who have taken the opportunities presented and run with them. I’m in awe of these women and men who have become leaders, as writers and speakers and authors, who are using technology and online tools like Jedi Masters!

Which brings me to the topic of personal branding. Someone who is a master at this is Danny Iny. In 18 short months, Danny developed a strategy to submit guest blog posts to some of the most influential blogs in his area of expertise. You can learn more about his strategy at Firepole Marketing but the magic part is that through the process, he developed a wealth of connections and content!

Here is the video where Danny covers “How to be successful without being famous” which has an amazing relevance to me right now. My process with clients has always been to make them the stars! I approach clients with the eyes of their ideal consumer, and understand they know their business the best. I let them guide the message, telling the story of their business, with me there behind the curtain, guiding them to stardom. With Danny’s help, I have now seen the error of my ways, in a vivid way.

At some point, and I’m feeling like it’s today, I’m going to have to come out from behind the curtain. My personal brand is ready to shine, and share and learn in a big way! While I’m attending Type-A this weekend, I’m going to be fine tuning my brand, defining my process and presentation, and will be relaunching my online presence. I’ll still write here about life, being a mom to boys, living in the wilds of Appalachia and still experiencing the culture shock of rural living vs urban upbringing, but it will be in a fresh and more personal way.

Watch the video and let me know what you think could be upgraded with your personal brand. We can do this!

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Wrong WayFor years, I have struggled with the idea that business in my local community is almost non existent because I live in a rural, bedroom community where the majority of people work and shop 30-45 minutes away. There are very limited opportunities for local jobs, for residents of any age. The youth move away as quickly as possible to find jobs, attend school and have a social life. In recent years, two of the major employers have shut down, the Dept. of Transportation hub and the telephone company, owned by an out of state corporation.

This is truly sad, as there are well educated, well trained workers, management and leadership quality individuals who live here, and who would gladly stop driving over mountains, wasting hours of time and many gallons of gas each week to apply their talents to local employment. In my community, it is a lack of vision, a lack of investment, and a sheer lack of planning that has led to the economic disaster.

Regionally, it has been pointed out this week, the mentality of looking elsewhere for what is locally available exists in the Roanoke Valley at an entirely different level. The Roanoke Regional Chamber of Commerce did not feel the need to look within its membership which they are supposed to be serving to meet the needs of their own organizational development. With the new publication “Roanoke Business,” the RRCC has chosen to publish outside of the region, and compete directly with its membership, specifically Valley Business Front Magazine and Leisure Publishing, of Roanoker Magazine and Blue Ridge Country Magazine fame. Not only were their members not given an opportunity to bid on the new publication, notice was made public only after the deal was sealed!

When this lack of consideration, communication and common decency is public, it stings, bad! This decision will have a ripple effect on the businesses of our region, having to face decisions about loyalty, perception of their consumers and business partners, and even their churches and families. The writers who could have made great contributions to the publication may choose to stay local with their submissions, increasing the opportunity for outsiders to tell the stories of our region without the years of experience and footwork our local writers have invested. Yes, the Chamber is about business, and yet it seemed to forget it is the ROANOKE REGIONAL Chamber.

When people do things like this, which happens every day, and say “it’s business.” that’s a poor excuse. Business today is about relationships, whether it’s a person walking in the door of your store or greeting you on Facebook each morning. If the relationships are not respected, especially during challenging economic times, the ties that are broken can create wide divides.

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The month of April has been a glorious show of early spring blooms. Trees, shrubs and flowers are blooming several weeks ahead of usual, making many events in the Mid-Atlantic region even more glorious than usual. Spring festivals are being held every weekend and this weekend is full of activities.

In my neck of the woods, the Vinton Dogwood Festival is in full swing, starting tonight. Music, food, craft vendors, rides and community groups with bake sales and raffles and games, parades and even a festival queen. This is an established event, 57 years running. Next will be the Strawberry Festival, Festival in the Park and on we go into the summer season! There are devoted and experienced volunteers and businesses who make all of these events successful.

North Carolina has a similar lineup of outstanding events, beginning this weekend. In Mount Olive, the celebrations will be around the pickle, the 26th Annual NC Pickle Festival! Keeping a sense of humor about it, it’s all about the Pickle! Another event is being held in southern North Carolina, the East Laurinburg Spring Fest. The community has come together to bring people out to the shopping district, get together for a gospel sing, with arts and crafts vendors, food and kids area. In Laurinburg, my friend Lily Pittman owns Lily’s Quilts, Crafts and Things and this is an opportunity to introduce her shop, products and services to neighbors and visitors who have never been inside her shop before. It makes it more comfortable for shoppers to come back again in the future and that’s what Lily is hoping happens.

No matter what the location, spring offers the opportunity to get out into communities and neighborhoods and meet new people. There are reasons to stay local, in walking communities, finding those hidden treasures in the shops and stores that line Main Street USA. For travelers, stopping in for an event in a new place leads to pleasant surprises. Business owners are eager to please and are looking for new ways to reach consumers. Participating in seasonal and special events is a bonus for business marketing, being part of a group that gets local and sometimes regional attention from the media and the public for the event.

So, this weekend, get out there and check out a local event. There are community calendars filled with lots of events that people have invested time, money and passion into and showing up is a simple way to say thank you.

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clockOn my green business blog, I recently posted about time. It’s a touchy subject for many people who have developed habits that may be comfortable but may not be producing the results they desire. That includes me!

What makes up a day? 24 hours, 60 minute segments to use or throw away, or chunks of 20 minutes that can produce massive progress! This is one of my new strategies. I’m chunking tasks into 20 minute segments. If I need to make phone calls, I have the list of who to call, the reason for the call, the desired result from the call, and the specific action I’m seeking from the person I call prepared, so in case I get a voice mail recording, I’m still accomplishing my mission. If I get a real person, all is good. I’m more focused, I’m to the point and I’m moving forward with my goals.

This isn’t easy. It takes some planning. It is also making a big change in my own patterns. It is stepping out of my comfort zone, where traditionally I’ve worried about making other people comfortable, or not seeming pushy or aggressive, but hey, if you don’t ask for what you really want, how will you get it?!? In The 4-Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss, he shares how he makes time work for him. Part of my strategy is acknowledging that if I focus on what I want, I actually ask for what I want and get an answer. Then I’ll know and can move on. It’s OK when people say no. Then I can shift gears, reformat my strategy, find another way to get where I’m headed and move forward.

This year is all about stepping out of my comfort zone. This is how I’m approaching life these days. If I’m not uncomfortable, I haven’t stretched myself far enough. It’s scary most days. It’s rewarding every day. In my business, I believe in the Rework principles – there’s a better, faster, easier way. I’m focusing on what I really want, and how I want my life to be an adventure. Things could be simpler, but what fun would that be?!? I’m all about the Art of Non-Conformity and finding your voice in a noisy world! If you have some secrets about using time to create positive change, please share!

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These are challenging times. Not news to any of us but how we each deal with daily challenges is very different. There are some business people in my circles who are so stressed out that they can barely finish a sentence without some prediction of gloom and doom. In my personal circles of friends and family, some are experiencing health problems and other issues related to unemployment, lack of insurance, housing struggles and some even struggle to put gas in the vehicle.

Yet there is another group of people who I treasure, and these are the people who I’m spending more and more time with these days. The people I’m talking about are the ones who, no matter what the situation is, are the ones who learn, face fear and challenges, maintain a positive outlook and overcome adversity to succeed. They are the beacons to follow, the visionaries who are able to accept that change is a constant. No matter where you are in this moment, you will not be there forever. It is their attitude towards life that moves them forward.

While I know how difficult it is to move forward with no promise of success, the other option is not an option for me. If you have a strategy you use to get you through tough times, please share it here. 2012 is set to be a year of intensity, full of change! I’m all for sharing how to survive and thrive together!

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Japan EarthquakeIn the wake of the horrible earthquake and tsunamis this week, I had what Oprah would call an “Ah-ha” moment. It is more important than ever that we come together as humanity in all areas of living. This morning there is a group I’m connected to, and I strongly support, who are holding a peaceful parade demonstration in Fort Myers Beach, Florida.  They have gathered to promote the same idea, that we really are One Human Family. It’s not a difficult concept to embrace. You only have to acknowledge that we all are only skin and bones, blood and brains, heart and soul.

What has moved me to write this post is that there are competing efforts trying to cause fear and distrust among us. Now, I’m not saying that there aren’t bad people out there who will take an opportunity to do bad things on purpose. They are more plentiful than I would like. I’m specifically talking about people who are focused on creating the emotion of fear to guide our daily thoughts and actions.

One example is the 2012 predictions of the world ending. I found this advertisement recently for the 2012 Survival Guide. I don’t know if it’s true or not ~ it doesn’t matter. It probably wouldn’t hurt to follow some of the advice in the guide. Living in a rural community, you never know when the electric will go out or the well will go bad or a multitude of other things that can happen. Being prepared is always a good thing. If you live in an urban or suburban community, there’s still things that can and do go wrong and being prepared to live a few hours or even days without creature comforts like water and power on demand may be a good thing.

The other side of that coin is that I’m not prepared to live waiting for the sky to fall, Henny Penny… I have faith that as One Human Family, we are all connected and when times get tough, we look out for each other. I’ve lived though times of struggle and times of reward and no matter where I’ve been on the ride of life, there are people there with me who support me and are there to celebrate with me.

So, how are you prepared for challenging times? Who is around you that can support you and you support them in times of physical or emotional challenge? Have you said thank you recently to someone who was there for you in the past? I’ll be sending this post to a few people in my network who I truly appreciate. It matters when you reach out and touch someone’s life. Make each moment count!

UPDATE: other people are thinking about this too… Here’s Jamie Lee Curtis post on Huffington Post

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